Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Edwin H. Friedman

"The colossial misunderstanding of our time is the assumption that insight will work with people who are unmotivated to change. Communication does not depend on syntax, or eloquence, or rhetoric, or articulation but on the emotional context in which a message is being heard. People can only hear you when they are moving toward you, and they are not likely to when your words are pursuing them. Even the choicest words lose their power when they are used to overpower. Attitudes are the real figures of speech."

from, Friedman's Fables, p. 5

1 comment:

Carol Van Atta, Princess Warrior said...

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